Photo prompt copyright Fatima Fakier Deria
The discussion has to be before 9 a.m. because that way Lisa won’t be on her second gin. Lisa is not a bad person. Even Queen Victoria drank alcohol with breakfast.
Ben hides in his tiny shed while he rehearses what to say.
“Darling, don’t be angry, but white cast iron is a bit last century. Didn’t we decide on rustic?”
This conversation must take place in the garden. Within earshot of next door. They were inside the house when Ben commented on Lisa’s removal of his big shed. The stitches are out but he still has visible bruising.
Poor Ben. Hope all goes fine with him this time.
Hope our world has less people like Lisa 🙂
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In reality probably there are far too many. And Ben is in denial which is deeply sad.
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Ben needs to run. And fast. But you’re right, often people don’t. It was interesting that you made the victim the man
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It’s a tragic fact of life that, for many reasons, is kept hidden..
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Dear Jilly,
It sounds like Ben needs to leave this toxic relationship and Lisa needs serious help. Good story.
Shalom,
Rochelle
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Serious help definitely needed, yes. Thank you, Rochelle.
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Feel so terrible for Ben.
People like Lisa, however, don’t realize that they need help. I hope Ben is able to trick her into it, at least.
Wonderfully told story, Jilly.
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Yes, Moon, you highlight a big problem – the abusive partner not realising help is needed. Thank you for your kind comment.
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Maybe he should have left well enough alone.
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It’s a vicious circle, I think. Difficult to know how to handle things when you’re treading on eggshells.
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Don’t mess with Lisa’s garden it seems.
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Or anything else for that matter. An astute concise comment, Iain, thank you.
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Hi Jilly,
I’m pleased to see you had a male victim of domestic violence, because it does happen and they can feel too embarrassed to speak out.
Unfortunately in these situations, relationships are often very complex and not everyone wants to give up on their relationship/marriage and perhaps sees a glimmer of hope. If only she got treatment…If only things were like they used to be… While divorce is common, not everyone believes in it. Or, won’t act until it’s life threatening. Or, it’s too late. Usually, people blame the victim for this, but people and relationships are much more complex. Also, if he knows there are underlying reasons for her drinking and that she perhaps was a victim herself, it would also make him more likely to stand by.
You have built a complex and very credible scenario here, Jilly. Well done!
xx Rowena
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Thank you, Rowena. You’re right. And the worst thing in such circumstances is hope because it keeps the person hanging on in there when they should really cut and run. But you’re also looking at the further motivation of someone who is abusive because of drinking. That must happen to dull some kind of pain.
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Well said.
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Poor man. I think he may need to plan an escape route – it can only get worse.
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Yes, Sandra, I think he should be planning his escape, definitely.
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Domestic abuse does go both ways. And it appears when they are men, they have just as much trouble leaving…
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Certainly, Dale. Most people don’t ever experience such drama and tension in their lives and they certainly don’t expect it when they promise to love, honour etc. Domestic abuse of men has been discussed several times on the radio phone in station I listen to and I was shocked and amazed by how common it is.
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Oh no, I think he needs to choose his arguments. Rather than worrying about rustic vs. last century, he should pick furniture for his new bachelor pad. She’s bad news!
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Couldn’t agree more with your witty and apposite comment. He should get on to the apartment listings right now!
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Great story about a very important topic.
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Thank you, Lisa.
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Ben needs to run, like right now! This was really refreshing and original.
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Thank you for your kind comments.
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everything has its limits. i think it’s time for him to be a man.
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Tolerance has its limits. Unfortunately weakness has none and loving somebody can make a person very weak.
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I’m not sure nosy neighbors will be enough to keep him safe.
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I think you’re right but he’s still at that stage where he’s choosing sticking plasters to cover gaping wounds.
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So many partners make excuses for their loved one’s violence and Ben is not the only one. How awful to have to tiptoe around like that, hoping not to get hurt. Nicely done Jilly
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Thank you, Lynn.
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My pleasure
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Poor Ben is walking on eggshells. I hope soon he decides that enough is enough and takes action to help both himself and Lisa.
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Yes, they both need help. Thank you.
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Yikes. This is extremely well-written. You’ve covered a whole marriage in just a few short sentences. IMO?–Ben needs to get out of there and leave Lisa to her gin.
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Let’s hope he does in time. Trouble is that first he has to face up to what a weak and damaged person Lisa is. She is the only one who can heal herself. Thank you for your great comments.
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This is a good story about an important issue. You’ve constructed it carefully and well. Your first sentence is a humdinger of a hook!
Well done!
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Thank you, Penny. I really appreciate your comments very much.
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Even in the first paragraph he’s making excuses for her. I think that’s pretty typical of victims. It sounds like this time, he’d like to have some witnesses, or perhaps thinks that she won’t become violent if she thinks the neighbors might be listening. Although, I doubt that even enter her consciousness.
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The excuses made by the victim are what permits the tragedy to continue. As you rightly say, Russell, this is typical. Ben desperately uses the neighbours’ as protection but like you I would doubt that Lisa would give them a single thought.
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For all his protections, he might just be wish to stay with white. Well done.
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I think he does want to stay with her, that is the tragedy in the situation. Thank you for your comment.
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Sometimes you have to step away to save yourself. I hope it works out.
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Maybe it’s better to give Lisa all the gin she want until she falls asleep… Ben is better off without her.
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Yes, Bjorn, it’s never going to work out with a woman like Lisa. Thank you for your comments.
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A great ‘role reversal’ look at domestic abuse.
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Thank you so much. I only discovered how prevalent it is by listening to a radio phone in last year. I felt that the men who phoned were very courageous as it must have been extremely difficult for them to “go public”. Happily most had escaped the misery and moved on.
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Ben and Lisa both need help. Great closing line.
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Thank you very much, Dan.
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Gin for breakfast, Lisa must surely be a woman of stern temperament. Poor Ben is terrified hiding in his little shed after his big shed is removed. My advice to Ben is, build a brick shed and lock Lisa in there.
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Thank you, James. Glad you noticed the sizes of the sheds.
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Well you know men and their sheds; size matters.
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I suspect they need to talk about more than furniture and maybe around 6 am. Good story, Jilly. You write it without hitting us over the heads. Well done.
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Thank you, Sascha, I enjoyed your turn of phrase too. Best wishes, Jilly.
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Poor Ben, continually living in fear. Not a good way to live. Very nicely written story! =)
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Thank you, Brenda, much appreciated.
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Poor Ben. Appreciate your making the man the victim here.
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Thank you very much, Dahlia.
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Living with an abuser is no way to live. I hope Ben leaves soon. Interesting and different take on the the prompt!
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Thank you, Fatima.
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That was so reminiscent of a beaten up husband fun pun story!
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This is exactly how many people in abusive relationships behave: find excuses for the abuser and ‘work-arounds’. This story hits the nail on the head.
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Thank you very much for your kind comments. I really appreciate your message.
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A very unique take on the photo prompt, Jilly. Poor Ben. I wonder when he will have had enough. I only hope it’s not too late. 😦
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Thank you, Jan.
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Oh dear. Abuse comes in all forms. Poor Ben.
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Unfortunately that is true. Thank you very much for your comment, Laurie.
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Great story – such a powerful story, so cleverly told – so we learn about relationship obliquely.
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful comments, Jilly :))
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